Turn on

Emotional connection: Feeling wanted, understood and valued. Stimulating conversations: Talking about interesting topics or sharing fantasies. Seduction games: Messages, glances, subtle touches.

Turn off

“It doesn't turn me on when a man doesn't pay attention to details, doesn't take the time to get to know me or only thinks about his own pleasure.” “It turns me off when someone is abrupt, doesn't respect my timing or doesn't show genuine interest in what I like.”